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Formal Wedding Advice
 
A formal wedding means that you basically want to conform to the traditional rites of the church. Generally, a formal wedding is larger both in the size of wedding party and the number of guests invited, and features more elaborate decorations, attire, invitations, and reception arrangements, than a semiformal or informal wedding.
 
If you plan to have a church wedding, you should make an appointment to meet with the church wedding coordinator before you set your wedding date. You should ask the following questions:
  • Do the bride and groom need to be members of the church?
  • Will you be required to attend any premarital counseling or training?
  • Can you be of any denomination?
  • Does the church perform interfaith marriages?
  • Are there any church wedding customs?
  • What dates and times can you choose for your wedding?
  • Are there any other events on that day?
  • What are the hours that you can use the church for rehearsals?
  • What is the maximum amount of seating?
  • Do they offer help with special vows or other liturgical elements you would like to have in your wedding service?
  • Do they have any rental equipment (candelabras, etc.)?
  • Can you use rice, confetti, or birdseed?
  • Are there any restrictions concerning music, flowers, decorations, photography, or videography?
  • Can you use your own minister?
  • Can you use their piano or organ?
  • Do they have a sound system?
  • Can you use candles?
  • What parking is available?
  • What is the cost of the service?
  • What deposits are necessary?
  • Who is responsible for clean up?
  • Are there any other costs or restrictions?